Conclusion
Patia's case is very interesting for several reasons, and I should like to take a few moments now to really dissect it and hold it up to the light for further study.
A good many people who get into B&D, whether they're female or male, straight or gay, tend to stick to either one side or the other of the B&D coin. Either dominant (heads) or submissive (tails). The same thing applies to practitioners of S&M, since this sex form and B&D are so closely intertwined.
However, Patia represents that all-too-rare and rather refreshing example of the B&D fan who decides to experiment, who decides to branch out by trying BOTH sides. The dominant AND the submissive. Not only that, but she even manages to be both dominant and submissive. AT THE SAME* TIME-by her enlightened friend Froggy. Most refreshing indeed.
I should like to point out one or two other things. Not only does Patia experiment with B&D by being on both sides of the rope (the inside and the outside), but even WITHIN the two forms she continues to experiment, to seek out new acts and new humiliations. Many submissives, for example, are content merely to be tied up and thrown in the corner night after night. But not Patia. She found new WAYS of being tied up, new positions to be tied up in, new objects to be tied to, and so forth. Such dedication to B&D is truly inspiring to the rest of us.
By the way, you may wonder how a fellow like Froggy can manage to devote so much time and money to the exploration of new ways to practise bondage and discipline. How does he ever find time to support himself, you may ask, especially since his equipment is likely to provide so great an additional financial burden.
The answer to that is obvious. There are many people in this world, both female and male, who will eagerly pay generous sums for the privilege of being restrained and dominated. And SOMEBODY has to keep them happy.
But now, on to my next case study....