Chapter 11
Swinging Correspondence and the Charisma o f the Three-Wary Female (C)...." Laura is performing cunnilingus on Virginia and she is just lying back enjoying it with one hand caressing Laura's pussy in the way we dearly love the double fuck. She has a thumb in Laura's cunt and also slides it around her clit, but her little finger is in Laura's asshole, and when I was in there a little while ago, Laura stopped eating Virginia long enough to give me a sexy wet kiss and suck on my tongue, while I reached down to diddle Virginia's lovable pussy with my hand and let Laura flip off my clit with her finger. We are all so damned hot in all three holes and we sure hope that you, Al, will not be jealous if all three of us go to work on that wife of yours. Doris looks like she would love us. You could watch, and maybe join in later...."
This is a short excerpt from one of a series of erotic letters received by a young couple in rural Pennsylvania. They are chronic erotic correspondents who receive stimulation from reading the letters and reply to them telling of what sexual things they desired to practice and what they did together in their marital relations, including much in the way of masturbatory activities while reading the letters from correspondents aloud and other forms of fantasy that turned them on together, so to speak.
The couple, Al and Doris, have contributed many sets of letters to me for research. I have selected to utilize here only those from a single source. Again, as with the Dutch man and his girl-friends, we hear of a menage situation, as the signatures are "Laura,"
"Bob,"
"Helen,"
"Virginia" and "Sara." The activities described are more than 50% Lesbian and none are described by "Bob."
I hope this will prove to be one of the most interesting chapters for the student of psychology as well as the lay reader. Bear in mind that we are dealing with a different phenomenon in this chapter than in the last two regarding erotic correspondence and the element of the three-way female.
I will reveal no more until my closing comments except to say that I hope you will seriously study the letters and play amateur psychologist, if you like. See if you can deduce the primary psychological difference which makes this chapter unique. I will present several of the letters in some detail so that you will have a great deal of material to guide you. However, please do not be disappointed if you are incorrect or unable to come to a conclusion. There are probably many psychologists and psychiatrists, those unfamiliar with the subtleties of today's mentally disturbed "swinging" activities of this nature, who also would not be able to arrive at the correct answer.
Here are the principal portions of this one series of letters received by Al and Doris, whom I know to be exactly who they say they are:
"Hi lovers!
"Please accept my apologies for taking so long to answer your letter, but I've been swamped, over 200 replies to our ad and we girls are only human, besides our regular office jobs and so forth.
"Since you've already seen my picture in the magazine I'm enclosing those of my roommates ... one of them, anyway. I'll save the others till later and it will be more excitingly sexy. The enclosed photo is of Laura and she is twenty-four, my other roommate is Virginia and she is twenty-nine. All of us are bi-minded and met in college various years apart, but eventually came to live together. We have a large dog, an English setter named Sport who is quite trained in pleasing us when we tire of one another. Variation is the spice of life, Al, and I see in the photo of you and Doris that you have a dog too ... hmmm.
"Virginia has just come in and she sends her warmest along with Laura and myself. Since I'm typing this letter, I can't presently join both of them in our sex room (bedroom) for a very relaxing way of relaxing and relieving our daily tensions at work. We look forward to sex period every day before supper, and then later too. I'll stop for a second and go back to the bedroom to see them in action and maybe relieve myself with a small orgasm, and I want to get out of these :damn clothes too.
"Whew! They're really going at it, and I had a little taste of it too. I'm almost nude now, and I'm rubbing one hand down between the wet place at my upper thighs. [See excerpt from first of chapter.]...." hell, I wish I could suck your cunt, Doris and I would stick my fat ass up and let Al drive his cock right in my asshole. Goddamn, I'm horny after that. I've got to suck that doll Laura some more today too. Her pussy tastes like candy!
"We are anxious to. hear of your escapades with your wife and dog and want some more of those photos of you eating each other and with Al's cock right in Doris' ass. Set up the camera so we can see her open cunt (she might hold it open with her fingers) while your cock is about three-fourths buried in her asshole. Well send you some hot good ones too.
"Warmly yours with anxious thighs, "Sara [signed] "Sara, Laura and Virginia"
"Dear sexy Doris and Al, "This is Laura starting off your letter this time, but Sara will be back before I finish, I hope. That picture of Al fucking your ass is just beautiful! I want that when we meet. I'm so hot up my ass that I passed out one night after someone at the party had left a cucumber in my ass. When I woke up I was so hot, I reached back and fucked myself with it and sucked off the guy asleep next to me.
"To you, Doris, I accept the compliment that I look like a professional model. I did do some nude posing for a college art class once and got a kick out of seeing the bulges in the men's trousers. One guy kept playing with it through his pocket and messed up his pants. A real riot! You said in your letter that Doris never takes on dogs, couldn't she even try it once if the dog only lapped her pussy with his warm, long tongue? I love to be licked by a dog and feel his cold nose in my twat-It would also give Doris something to look forward to when you're away on business, unless she masturbates a lot. Doris, darling, do you masturbate? I'd like to hear from you also, but not to the exclusion of Al, of course. I can't help it that Doris fascinates me more than you do, Al. Sorry. Doris, I'd like you to pose for a special picture for me since you liked mine so much. Pose on that same bed sitting up with your back against the headboard and legs slightly bent and wide open and fingers down between those sexy thighs holding apart the cuntlips, and smiling.
"From the picture, Doris, you appear to have a very prominent Mount of Venus and I could just imagine having my head buried there sucking on your dear clitoris and lips and running my fingers up your vagina and anus, then eventually gluing my mouth over your whole opening and vigorously sucking until you come, and feel your tender fleshy thighs pressing against my ears and your hands curled in my hair, or we could do each other together, as I'm sure you have a very active experienced tongue, darling. Of course I wouldn't want you to be left out Al, so after watching us and seeing Doris' hips move up to meet my head, you would have quite a hard-on and I could bring up my knees and you could get behind me and I would guide the cock right into my juicy cunt and you could screw to your heart's content, or just lay it in there without moving an inch. I've got terrific muscle control and could milk your cock without your moving and sort of masturbate you with the muscles in my vagina, something which has taken me years of experience to learn to do just right. Your breasts, Doris, look delicious to caress and suck on and if I look closely at your picture I can see the little nipple standing up and rd love to have my hands on them and sucking on your nipples. Make sure that in the sitting picture that your nipples stand out. Caress them with your fingers and let a .cool breeze blow across them before taking the picture, or have Al suck them up hard while he massages your slit.
"Al, do you suck your male friends' penis and swallow the come? If so do you like it? I enjoy the strength of the sperm hitting the roof of my mouth when I eat a man, how does Doris enjoy doing it to you, Al? Do you enjoy having a penis in your asshole? Would you also enjoy having a woman strap on an artificial penis and screwing you, Al, as I do to Sara a lot? Does Doris masturbate in front of you, and both of you together? Let her tell me in her own words.
"Sara just came in and I told her I was writing to you. She kissed me and her lips are very tender and soft, and her tongue is very exciting, then she went into the bedroom to get undressed. She will want me to suck her off before she goes to sleep and since she has to work tomorrow, she will have to go to sleep in a few minutes. I also want to eat her because I've gotten hot and am rubbing myself off between my thighs, over what I'm writing and thinking. I wish Doris were here to rub my cunt now. I'm sitting here in my skirt and blouse, with my blouse now unbuttoned and I'm not doing it, Sara is. She's in a hurry and she's making me hotter and she's pinching my nipples and I'm making mustkes all over my tuping. God, she's stripped me almost naked until I'm sitting here with nothing on but my garter-belt and stockings and ... oh, hold it a minute.
"Whew, I'm back. I told her to wait just a few more minutes and play with herself or use the vibrator there in the bedroom and mix us a drink. Oh, I can still feel that doll's finger in my pussy! Oh! When I get awfully sexy, I use quite vulgar language, hope you two don't mind. At present my cuntlips are quivering and I'm horny as hell and feel like a real good fuck. To answer your question, I lost my cherry when I was seventeen and started masturbating when I was eleven. Laura lost her virginity when she was fourteen and had sex with her own brother when she was nine. Jirginia, believe it or not, has never lost her virginity (that's a good play on words) to a man, but to me. I introduced her to the world of Lesbos when she was twenty-two, and she won't go with a man at all. Both Laura and I are bi, but Virginia is my property and I only share her with my special friends. She does enjoy having a man watch her with me or alone. She masturbated herself for an hour and fifteen minutes straight without stopping and you I should have seen that. She used a vibrator on her clit and breasts and in her mouth and worked herself up into such frenzies it was the hottest thing you ever watched. She had forty-eight orgasms.
"Well, I've really got to go now, so here's a bunch of hot and wet kisses from us to you all over your face, cunt, penis and anus.
"All our warmth and love; "Laura, Virginia and yours truly
"LAURA
"xxxxxxx [written] [also written]
"Our motto
"Love is Soixante-neuf."
"Hi there sexy lovers!
"It's Sara again this time. Our little abode here has changed some. Laura and myself are still here but Virginia headed out for points unknown after a lover's spat with Laura. When we were vacationing in Florida we met a very nice couple and they are now living with us, they are unmarried and Helen is from England and Bob is from this area. Helen is quite the horny type we need around here. She's bisexual, so that helps out Laura and I and Bob is also, so he doesn't put too much of a demand on our attentions all the time. We met Bob and Helen at the 'vacation villa we were staying at in Florida. There was a riding stable and all there, and that really turns Helen on. She really loves to play with horses' cocks and watch them shoot off like a fire hose. What a fucking sight!
"When we went swimming in the pool late at night with no clothes on, we would let Bob fuck us and the suction on his big cock going in and out of a pussy under water was terrific. Now, we have a man in our house to take some pictures too. How do you like the Polaroid of me eating Helen? Hasn't she got a darling body and pretty face? And look at the cock on Bob. He's had us all three in the ass, cunt and mouth now, and you ought to see him go to work in Helen's asshole. Whew! Well send some photos of that to you. Laura likes to get underneath and suck the suckable and fuckable blonde pussy on Helen, when Bob is fucking her ass and I am sitting up by her head and getting sucked and tongued but beautifully and using the vibrator attachment with lotion on it over my tits and in my navel and back to my nipples. This couple is terrific, just what we needed after Laura's big break-up with Virginia. I sucked her cunt and ass both after the other two got through with her and I got her off three more times. I never saw a girl who likes it in the ass so much, though Laura and I can come with a cock in the anus if the guy is good, like Bob ... and you too, Al?
"I've enclosed a color photo of Helen sucking the cock of the Negro maintenance man in our apartment building and hope you like it. Could we have one in return or a couple of Doris in color. I'd like to see some real close-up photos of her pussy right after you've fucked it with some of your sperm still running out of her. Have her wearing a garter belt and hose and heels for we feel that things like that make a woman appear more inviting and sexy in person or in a photo. Both Helen and I always fuck and suck with our garter belts and stockings on.
"A threesome would be nice with you and since you have a rather different form of cock, Al, I'd, love to suck on it and even swallow your sperm while Bob fucked me in the ass or cunt. But just think if Doris were to join us or just Bob, you and Doris. You could eat Doris and Doris could eat Bob or vice versa. There are many many variations. Or I or Laura could be sucking you off while Bob is fucking one of us in the ass and Doris is sucking my cunt. That would be a wow! Oh, and with two men here, I could suck both pricks at the same time. It's not easy, but I did it once before and I loved the sensations. I'll include a picture we made when it happened.
"We'd all love to suck Doris and Bob would like to suck and fuck her too. Have you sucked Doris' asshole yet, Al? Can Doris make her vaginal muscles do all the work so you can come without moving a muscle of-your own? You mean to say you never fuck Doris during her period? Laura is on her period right now and Bob fucks her anyway. Like to have a photo of Doris masturbating with her legs wide open? Do you ever take movies of each other? At times I'll strap on an artificial penis especially designed for women to wear, with hollow balls that can filled with warm milk and squeezed when the person being fucked wants to feel the warm liquid coming up her warm and hot cunt. Just the thing Doris needs for she could push it in and out of herself and work it by hand alone. Bob lets me use it in his ass also, and its humiliating when I put it in with all my clothes on and have it jutting out from under my. panties with my dress laying over it while I'm fucking him in the ass and he is sucking off Helen. How would you like me to do the same for you, Al while you are sucking off Doris? When Bob comes in my mouth I love to feel his hot sperm hitting inside, but it tastes a lot better if he fucks Helen or Laura first and then I suck it out of them. I have sucked Laura after four men in a row have fucked her and it was the gooiest taste treat I've had. My whole face was smeared with come! Do you suck off Doris after you've fucked her, Al? After you fuck does she lick your prick clean? The dildo is good to ass fuck a girl who has a prick in her cunt already.
"I imagine that Doris sucks you off sometimes when you are writing to us. Right? To answer your questions, Al; my first sex experience was with a girl, and I was fourteen years old. She got my cherry using a Coke bottle, we were or thought we were in love with each other, she was eighteen. One evening when she was over at my house and my parents were downstairs watching TV (she was spending the night) we were reading this book and looking at some fuck pictures. The pictures got us all excited. She was laying beside me reading over my shoulder, we were both partially dressed, me in just panties and her in blouse without bra or panties. We were drinking Cokes and she started caressing my neck and moved her hands down to caress my breasts, my nipples already being hard and pointed from looking at the pictures of girls sucking other girls and getting fucked. She was so much older and really had a technique for seduction. She started pinching my nipples and kissing my neck and running her tongue in my ear. I had to put the pictures down and my cunt was very wet then and her hands moved down my belly and caressed my thighs, I opened them up and she rubbed my cunt through my panties, they were some pastel color because I never wear plain white ones, then she slipped a finger under the elastic and tickled my lips and clitoris with her finger, I was moaning and telling her to go farther, while she was sucking my nipples and my hands were clutching her head. She stopped for a moment and we both stripped off what little we bad on. She went back to caressing my cunt with her fingers, my ass was bouncing all around and I was on cloud nine. We were tongue kissing each other and I was playing with, her nipples and running my fingers up her cunt, she had a nice bushy cunt and really wide open, not tight like mine was, then she sucked me off, reached for a Coke bottle and inserted it into my cunt and worked away, it hurt real bad, but I was in love with her and hid my pain, then the pain turned to pleasurable feelings and she shoved her leg between mine and we both reached q climax together. In nights to follow I learned how to suck her off and many other things. Helen just came into the living room and wants to suck me very much. I'll stop now and since Laura is here and wants to add her own personal note to the letter I'll go on with Helen. With a warm kiss, Sara.
"Hi there, Al and Doris! Oh, the virginity thing. I lost mine when I was seventeen and it was with my boyfriend, his being rough with me made me lose interest in men and later on I met Sara, but for your information, we were drinking and I was pretty drunk one night, and this clod on a date started trying to suck my tit, I was too drunk to stop him and deep inside wanted to get the whole thing over anyway. I'd never seen a prick before and when he took it out and put my hand on it I was amazed at the size and didn't think it would fit. He made me suck him off that I liked and when he was playing with my clitoris I liked that too, but when he put that big prick in me, that I didn't like and cried during the act and afterwards. He had his pleasure, then left me. Some other nice girl took me home, he was with another girl. I never saw him again, I had sex with other guys, gentle and rough, but loved girls a lot better because they were always considerate and didn't take sex for granted. How about Doris and her first experience? Both heterosexual and homosexual? Well, Sara's back so I'll let her finish off.
"Yes, I'm back sexy Art and Doris. Helen sucks a mean cunt and I'm relaxed now, she's going to work on Laura this time. You also asked if any words were spoken during my first time, well from what I can remember I believe so, I asked her to squeeze my nipples and kept saying yes, more, yes, and she kept saying she liked my cunt and the juice tasted good and all and how nice my thighs were to lick and caress, etc.
"I've been fucked in my asshole many times and love it, love it, love it. Al, do you want a piece of my ass, here it is. Kiss my rosebud and lick it for a while and I bet I can take three-fourths of that cock of yours with no extra lubrication. I want you to play with my cunt and tits while you have it in my ass. Laura uses an artificial cock in my ass sometimes at the same time she is eating me and I'm sucking Bob or Helen. We get some real good connections going here when we're in the mood for a big 'sex-in."
"I was sixteen when a male first sucked my cunt, Laura was nineteen and we sucked the guys off at that same occasion. Your photo looks delightful, jack off next time so I can see the sperm running out and Doris looks good enough to eat, although I still want to see her nipples hard and pointed and her legs open wider so I can see way down into her juicy cunt. Write soon ... must run get some ass.
'With a warm kiss to Doris' cunt from all of us and a warm suck to your prick from all of us we leave you to your dreams, "Love [written by hand, "SARA incl. signatures]
"LAURA
"HELEN
"BOB"
COMMENT: As you have been alerted by me that there is something drastically different about these letters compared to those in the two previous chapters, some of you have undoubtedly detected the discrepancies. You realize that these letters were all written by the same person, i.e.-notice that the same speech patterns occur in the writing of all the alleged girls; the same grammatical errors occur, the same terrible punctuation errors. There is also a sameness of interest, down to the most minute detail.
So far then, it is reasonably safe to conclude that a single person may have dreamed up all of this. (The signed names also appeared to be written by the same hand in each case too.) Now, do you picture that person as someone who actually does live in some menage arrangement with girls and the man? Or do you picture a very lonely and perhaps unattractive woman given to much masturbation and fantasy who creates all of this in the way of a fiction writer who empathizes deeply with his own characters?
Of course, no one could be expected to gather the entire picture or the precise picture from the letters. So, let me reveal the truth and then discuss it from there. Al and Doris received the letters from a street address in a large metropolitan area of over two million people, which is within forty miles of my office. I spent an entire day doing a little simple detective work. The results indicated that:
All the letters were written by a forty-year-old Negro man who lives in a small apartment in a rundown ghetto area. He has only the last name "Jackson," let us say, in his mailbox, and he asked that all replies be sent to "Miss Sara Jackson" at his address. Everything he wrote was a figment of his overactive and deviantly erotic imagination. The man is extremely shy and introverted, works as a bank messenger, and obviously has very little, if any, interpersonal sexual contacts.
As I have seen so many men posing as females in the area of erotic correspondence, a kind of sixth sense told me immediately that this was a man writing this. Women who are highly oversexed, fetishists, deviates, Lesbians, etc., just do not write letters the way this person does. Females certainly are capable of writing strongly erotic letters describing all kinds of sex activity in great and arousing detail.
However, the fascination with stockings and garters was the first real giveaway. I have yet to discover a real female who is turned-on sexually by another woman in such attire. This is strictly a mares fascination or fetish. Lesbians are not the least bit interested in their lover's wearing "sexy" lingerie, hose, etc. As Krafft-Ebing would probably have put it: Females are just not stuff fetishists. If there had been a lot of emphasis on breast interest, without the other discrepancies, it might be believable, because breasts usually attract most Lesbians in a purely physical sense.
The typewritten letter filled with much intensity and detail are also common earmarks of the male posing as a female. And the reason so many men do this usually stems from one or two psychic factors. A great many of them are perfectly normal in every way except their ability to relate to females in a way that they think is "satisfactory." They have a very noticeable (sometimes unnoticeable) sexual inferiority complex. Mentally, they are heterosexual cripples, but have no desire for sex relations with men.
In their own minds, they feel that a female may respond more readily with another female, that men (others as well as themselves) are not really capable of arousing the sexual instinct in a female, whereas another woman is. They see the intimacies that so many women share, the kisses, the other physical evidences of affection, and they take it to mean that nearly all females are Lesbian or could be seduced by a Lesbian approach. Thus, hiding behind an anonymous female name, they attempt to take on the personality and person of a real female, and often utilize photos of real females claiming them as their own. It is surprising how many men find themselves writing highly erotic correspondence to each other in the female guise.
Secondly, there is the phenomenon known by many as that of the "male Lesbian," or the TV (transvestite). When these men (who may or may not be homosexual) exchange photos, they are often the real thing. They have beautiful female wigs. They use make-up expertly, and they dress completely feminine down to the inevitable stockings and garters. Some of them undergo hormone treatments under a physician's advice, and thus "grow" breasts. Others are gynocomastic, i.e.-they already have unusually large mammary development for the male.
I have personally been fooled by at least two transvestites upon their first visit for consultation. They can often emulate a very feminine voice.
While there is a relationship between transvestism and transsexualism (a person who feels he is of the opposite sex and can exist no other way), there are often differences too, and they are far too subtle to discuss here, except to say that transsexuals (who may also be transvestite) often qualify for sex-change operations.
It is my belief that in the case of the fantasy prone letter writer under study here that we are dealing with a transvestite homosexual, but one who may not be too transsexual. He works as a man, dressing in regular men's clothes on the street. When at home by himself, he probably changes into feminine clothes and "lives" as a female.
The reader may recall how this man may have been attempting to "set-up" the couple for an actual meeting. I have records of cases where this has been accomplished, sometimes successfully, other times disastrously. The man mentioned that "she" liked to wear the dildo sticking out of the elastic band of "her" panties while fully dressed, and then raise "her" skirt and copulate with a male anally or a female either anally or vaginally.
Now, if this person was able to pass for a female clothed, the only way he could perform a penetrative sex act on another would be in this manner: He would have a hollow, strap-on dildo into which he placed his own penis. And by keeping much of his clothing on, could conceivably delude another male (or a female). If the others wanted to coit with "her," the man could claim to be having a period and offer his mouth or rectum instead. This trick has worked, but it is indeed filled with a great deal of risk.
If the person fooled is a real Lesbian, she would be furious and probably very vindictive to find herself with the "hated" or "feared" male of the species. If the person is a heterosexual male, the transvestite might end up with a broken jaw or worse.
In trying to fool both a male and a female, the man in this case would have been up against great odds. However, his main accomplishment was achieved-erotic correspondence with a couple who were real. He undoubtedly masturbated almost constantly, or was in a constant state of high sexual excitation a great deal of the time at home. I was able to determine that this man corresponded with a dozen or more men, women and couples in this same manner. Therefore, I must conclude that he is at least bisexual, or that he receives a very great satisfaction in posing as a female and uses his correspondence with other females to learn about valid Lesbian likes and dislikes. But, as I mentioned before, many of the "females" to whom he writes may be just as male as he is.
The psychodynamics of transvestism, as well as transsexualism, are often much the same as for homosexuality. The child is frequently reared as a female by a mother who wanted a daughter, or who hates men. The roots may be subtly accomplished in many ways by the mother. She may dress him as a girl into the age group of five or more. She may constantly stress that he is weak, that other men are bad, but that he is good because he is not like other males.
The reader should bear in mind, however that this is only a generalization. The man who wrote the letters may not be a transvestite at all. He could simply be writing the letters as a female so that he may receive more erotic response. Most men who advertise and correspond as men, receive very poor results. And the reason is obvious; swinging world or not, the proportion of interested males to females is the same as it is elsewhere, about three to one in favor of the female. The competition is great and so many males are too late. Some, but not many, do end up carrying on a very heated correspondence with a real female. The average woman who puts an ad in the swinger publication receives about 100 replies from men. She does not have the time to correspond with more than a few, so she chooses the men whose letters really turn her on, or the ones from men who say they are very "generous."
The complete fantasist, to the point of disguising his sex and conjuring up written erotic escapades that are merely longed for wishes, is one of the most common phenomena today in the exchange of swinging (erotic) correspondence and photos. And the erotic attractiveness of just the idea of the three-way female is often emphasized in his expressions of desire as well as his own "female" likes.