Conclusion
Shirley is very lucky to have met a boy like Frank, for he helped her lose all guilt that she felt from her first exhibitionist experience. Girls like Shirley, who have been praised for their beauty all their life, seem to always end up as exhibitionists.
You might think that's a generalization, but I believe it's a truth. If a girl is told that she is beautiful and that her beauty does things to drive men mad, and she's told that again and again, she is going to want to use her beauty for just such a purpose. In most cases, it involved showing off your body.
Shirley seemed to have trouble with labeling Frank, too. Even though we both agreed that labeling someone was bad, I told Shirley that it's quite possible for a person to be a voyeur and an exhibitionist at the same time. For some strange reason, however, Frank wants to deny the fact that he is an exhibitionist, too, so I just told Shirley to forget about it and not bring it up again. One day, he will come out. I think he'll be glad when he finally does. It's such a relief not to have to keep it inside.