Foreword
Today, more than ever before married women and men are experimenting sexually. They are eager to discover new ways to stimulate and satisfy each other. For they recognize that the act of sexual intercourse had the ability to bring them together or pull them apart.
It is also understandable that no two human beings are going to be aroused by the same things sexually. Therefore, a great degree of "tolerance" and "understanding" is necessary for that is the only way there will ever be-the blend of mind and body that makes the act of sexual intercourse a pleasure and delight for both parties.
The traditional training concerning sex has prove a handicap to happiness for many couples. Sex. to some warped minds, equates with "sin". Others rate sex as a "dirty act"-something that cannot be discussed by "decent people in polite society." No wonder so much "bar talk" is "dirty talk." The reason is very easy to understand. Men think of sex as something to joke about, or use a vocabulary consisting primarily of four letter words. That this sort of thinking is running counter to a true understanding of sexual needs, urges and desires is finally being brought to light. Sex clinics deal in the mental anguish that traditional sex thinking has created. If a woman feels she would like her husband to perform a certain sex act in a certain manner on her body, she is encouraged to reveal her innermost lustful cravings. The same is required of the man. For unless both marriage partners feel free to discuss what they desire-they will never achieve the sexual satisfaction they desire.
Our book revolves around a man who felt free to ask other women than his wife to perform a variety of sexual acts with him. Finally, he broke through the barrier and told his wife what he'd like most of all to perform. This man liked the sexual act of anal intercourse-and his wife's body appealed to him in this way. However, when he suggested it-at first- she was furious. She called him a series of bad names, but eventually she lost her sex hang-ups and found out-she enjoyed it. Then, she felt free to tell him what she'd like to do most of all-and their marriage was salvaged through free sexual expression, and maintaining an open minded attitude toward sex.
--The Publisher