Chapter 13
THE GIRL WITH NO NAME: A BEHAVIORAL BRIEF
"I slow the speed of my car down and drive quickly from the road and stop just in time. My semen jets into her mouth, but she goes on sucking my penis 'till it is hard again, all the time frigging her clitoris, now clearly visible, and her body is trembling in spasms after spasms."
The girl with no name will be immediately recognizable to perhaps a majority of males who read this book. She is a pickup, "nympho."
"quickie cocksucker." Like millions of other females the world over, she is hungry for love, and has come to take sex as a readily obtainable substitute.
Yet not all "pickups," not all whores, not all obsessive-compulsive sex deviants are by any means alike. It is truly amazing, however, the great deal of information about this girl that can be obtained when analyzing this behavioral brief that took up only a few hours of her life.
After reading this particular episode from my
European friend's Lorenz, autobiography, I asked his permission to include it in a future study on female sex hang-ups, and he very agreeably gave his permission, remarking that: "You know my English is not so perfect as a writer. I have made the notes in English because I will eventually sell my life story to an American publisher and I have to make the best price. You are indeed welcome to use this one small experience that was quite memorable for me as I was a young man in my twenties only recently out of college."
I have not attempted to change or edit Lorenz's notes. I think the true color of his unusual encounter and the European attitude toward this kind of situation is best represented in its original form. I reproduce it here verbatim:
I saw a girl asking for a lift as I was driving slowly from the town. I picked her up. She was about nineteen-twenty-two-years-old, bright red hair, a nice sweet face, big bosom, covered in white blouse, no bra. The brown areolas of her breasts were clearly visible through her nylon blouse. My desire was waking up slowly. I admired her crossed legs and her breasts in turn when driving forward. Her skirt was drawn half way up on her thighs and she was stroking her arms and thighs with her fingertips. This made me randy, and I felt my organ get stiffened. My erection could be seen, but I had no possibility to cover it.
Her hand came on my thigh) her palm stroked along it and pressed then on my erected organ. My cock was too excited. I glanced at her and saw her burning eyes, half open lips, and heard her broken breath. That moment, I catch it! She is perhaps nymphomaniac!
I welcomed her activities, so she opens up my trouser buttons and take the cock out and manipulate it very skillfully with fingers 'till she take it in her mouth and begin to suck and lick. Meanwhile she caresses with her one hand her sex under her skirt. My passion is culminating soon. I clearly feel it coming. I slow the speed of my car down and drive quickly from the road and stop just in time. My semen jets into her mouth, but she goes on sucking my penis till it is hard again, all the time frigging her clitoris, now clearly visible, and her body is trembling in spasms after spasms.
We have both been silent of words. I do not even known her name, but now she whispers, "Let me sit on it"
I let her do as she wishes. She guides it in her wet crack and begins her up and down movement till it comes again. My lust has gone away, but her activity is only growing. She is quite wild when she catches that my organ does not be able to satisfy her any more. She begins herself to masturbate with both hands, with the fingers of one hand her vagina and the outer lips, and with the other hand's fingers, her clitoris.
She is delirious! She scratches and frigs and asks me, "Please help me! Please help me, or I'll die!" She makes me believe she is really meaning it coming all the time and screaming, orgasm after orgasm, till I spit on my finger and stick it in her pothole. It helps. She gets unconscious. The seat is all over wet and sticky.
She wakes up and smiles in some moments and asks me to forgive her, she couldn't help it. She tells me she is ready and eager again to start making love. My organ will not erect so quickly after losing sperm two times already, so I only masturbate her for awhile, like a mechanical hand. I am sitting by her with her pants off and skirt above hips, with my left finger going in and out and hitting her clitoris. My entire hand is soaked by her profuse secretions.
She lets me know that she was made to feel good with my finger in her pothole. I then put the long finger (index finger) in back. With my thumb from this same hand, I furiously irritate her clitoris and inner lips. It is good as she is once more lost in a sex-craze. She wants more of a different movement, double movement and tells me to use both hands.
This is better when I place two fingers from my left hand in the back and the tips of other fingers in her wet crack. I can now move in and out of her pothole and also furiously irritate her clitoris with more individual force. My organ now erects to halfway again and she sees it with much pleasure, grabbing it with her hand to make it stand up straight. This must go on for a very long time as I am difficult to make sperm erupt again and she wants all the orgasms I can give her.
We rest again after this discharge and she later sucks and ticks my organ to halfway again, after which we once more use both my hands in her holes and hers on mine. She is more easy now and plays with my balls and pothole. Together now, we make a long masturbation as she puts her finger of one hand in me and holds my organ with the other. Both our hands are working and I am burning with passion again, but it is a long time to discharge my sperm.
For three hours we had sex, and when we are driving again, I ask her carefully all kinds of things because of my interest in psychology of sex. She tells me that since she was violated and lost her virginity by a group of youngsters, she has always been randy and eager for sexual intercourse and that her lust often has no limits as this case proves. She becomes wilder and wilder and can get twenty-thirty orgasms till she collapses totally for some minutes. But when she becomes conscious again, all is unchanged, her lust is back.
Comment: I feel that the girl involved here was probably on the verge of actual nymphomania and may have indulged in a great deal of solitary masturbation. She was very likely a religious girl with serious conflicts over her deeply ingrained moral standards and a consuming passion.
After the trauma of the "rape," she may have decided to abandon all pretext of being a "nice" girl, actually allowing the violation to give her an excuse for unlimited promiscuity. This, however, is only a guess, as it would be impossible to make a firm psychological assessment of a person with such a dearth of background information. The "rape" story may be pure fiction on her part.
From a behavioral standpoint, I do find this incident rather typical of the insatiable or highly passionate type heterosexual female, whom we generally refer to as being nymphomaniac. No one man could possibly satisfy her with normal copulation, nor could many stand up to such prolonged periods of cunnilingus as it would take to gratify her.
As a result of this, continual mutual masturbation is encouraged, supplemented by anal masturbation performed simultaneously, when there is only one male present. Many men feel quite incompetent when confronted with a girl Of this type. Yet when one will accept mutual masturbation and not ridicule the male for not being able to maintain erection or to quickly recoup, the man may continue to be pleasurably involved, as was the case with Lorenz.
The "nymphomaniac" thusly, is quite often the instigator of prolonged mutual masturbation practices between two people, simply because it is the one method that is the least tiring for a partner and which the act of constant genital exacerbation can be maintained the longest without undue discomfort for either party.
The basic difference between this situation and those studied previously is that oral intercourse (fellatio) and coitus were both performed to completion along with the mutual masturbation.