Conclusion
As I have tried to show, the spanking syndrome is not a specific deviation among just adults, those who are jaded to the point of seeking farther and more bizarre means of achieving orgasm--it also is an activity of the young.
True, there are clubs or groups of men and women who desire this particular type of sexual fun, but as stated, they are hard to find. Pain, or the pleasures of pain, usually begins with mild spankings on the buttocks of a partner.
Many times, this will branch off into the more deviant aspects of sexuality whereby it becomes sadistic in nature, even to the point of flagellation. Most times, if the desire to spank develops into flagellation, a great deal of pain and, many times, serious injury can result to the recipient. However, mild spanking is not considered to be a perversion in that there are far too many men and women who utilize spanking as a sexual foreplay.
Most of us know that a certain amount of pain is quite pleasurable. A woman for instance, who has her nipples pinched and twisted during an energetic sexual relationship, will readily admit that the sharp pain she feels increases her passion. This although not related to spanking, is a form of pleasure-pain that many women seek.
A man, different in physical and psychological make-up, seeks pain in a different manner. Usually, as mentioned previously, he will seek spanking as a means of punishment for some wrong he has committed, or some wrong he will admit to.
The proximity of the buttocks to the genital area, and also one of the erotic zones of both male and female, responds greatly to stimulation of various forms. When the buttocks are petted and caressed, it is no mystery to find the man becoming aroused to the point of erection. And, on certain men, if the petting is in the form of a spanking, many men will achieve an ejaculation simply with this method of paddling. I have tried to point out the severity of some spankings and the results on the male.
A man who enjoys a mild paddling on his naked bottom will be turned off if the pain becomes too severe, and on the other hand, a man who desires a hard spanking will not erect if the pain is too mild.
The female who administers the spanking is playing a mother role. She is disciplining a rowdy child. She may enjoy the sounds of her hand on the naked buttocks to the point of orgasm, or she may simply thrill to the way the flesh turns color. She may or may not achieve orgasm during the spanking, however she will receive a great deal of pleasure, after which copulation or oral-genital relations will be of a greater intensity for her.
Of all the sexual deviations, those who seek pleasure-pain through spanking or flagellation, they are the least understood. Hopefully, as more and more of this syndrome comes to light, we will develop a better understanding.