Conclusion
Yes, they had used Sandy. And it was some time before our combined efforts in therapy made her able to overcome the enormous guilt-feelings and sense of uncleanliness that had tortured her.
When Sandra had learned that there was nothing wrong with her sex desire, but that she felt guilty because she felt that it was her fault that she had been used, she was on the road to recovery. Finally, the understanding that it was their-the men's perverse actions-that was wrong, and not her budding sexuality, the back of the problem was broken She could be cured.