Conclusion

In studying taped interviews of the many case histories which were culled prior to the preparation of this book, it became quite obvious that almost all of the women involved were harboring deep feelings of insecurity from their initial marital failures. Those feelings of insecurity were allowed expression in the area of promiscuous sexual relationships many of which spanned the full spectrum of deviant sexual practices.

In general, it was found that many of the women went through a period of sexual abstinence following their divorce, during which time they went through a period of deep depression. They felt that they had failed in life and were afraid to try marriage again least they again fail. Then, as time passed, each began to wonder about the reasons for their marital failure. At first, they were prone to place the blame for the failure entirely on their husbands, but, as time passed, each developed nagging doubts regarding their own ability to function as a woman, particularly in the area of their sexual relations with their husbands. This, naturally enough, led to a desire to experiment, to find out if they could please a man sexually.

Later, as each of the women tried, through sex, to quiet her fears that it was her own inadequacy which caused the divorce, the forms of sexual congress became more and more esoteric, eventually leading into analism.

It is, contrary to popular opinion, possible for a woman to have a thoroughly enjoyable orgasm during anal intercourse. This is because the primary area of feeling in a woman's sexual organs is the clitoris, not the vagina as is commonly thought. The vagina itself has very few tactile nerve endings. Some of the tissues surrounding the vaginal entrance are highly sensitive, especially the small inner lips known as the labia minora. Since these surround the vaginal opening they are stimulated by the rhythmic movements of the penis during intercourse and are a source of pleasure to the woman.

However, the clitoris is the most important spot, the female organ which directly controls her ability to achieve orgasm. The clitoris is deeply embedded in fleshy tissue so that many young women are completely unaware of its existence until it is aroused by the manipulations of an experienced man. When this happens, it, like the male's penis, enlarges when its blood vessels expand the spongy tissue in the course of sexual arousal. With further sexual arousal, nearing the point of orgasm, it retracts to become even less accessible than usual. This is because the head of the clitoris is so sensitive that it is liable to become quite irritated if manipulated directly for any extended period of time. Most women prefer indirect stimulation of the clitoris via manipulation of the mons pubis.

After the clitoris retracts, direct stimulation by manipulation or via penile contact becomes practically impossible. However, indirect stimulation occurs in every coital position where there is either full penetration of the rectal canal with attendant pumping motions. It is the pumping motion, not vaginal contact, which stimulates the partially or totally buried clitoris, bringing on the orgasm.

Most women prefer continued indirect stimulation of the clitoris during the course of orgasm. This comes with continued male thrusting into either the vagina or rectum. Because most men prefer to cease thrusting on reaching a climax, this suggests, that, ideally, the woman's climax should come before the man's, rather than having man and woman reach climax together.