Foreword
Monotony in marriage has long been the cause of many marital breakups, and nowhere is the monotony factor more evident than in the sexual sphere.
When sex-contacts become a monotonous round of Saturday night intercourse sessions, with no passion and little variety, problems develop.
One solution to this sex-boredom syndrome has been to inject new passion, new interests, lusts and carnal cravings into the marriage by swapping.
However, in the game of swapping many couples soon discover they are sexually mis-mated, and that the sex-mate they are swapping with is much better suited to their intimate sexual needs, desires, and feelings.
That is when problems erupt that often split the marriage and this is the very reason why many men and women fear becoming involved in the "swap" game. They recognize they might lose their marital mate by engaging in such a game and this fear is not unsound.
However, there is also the possibility that in the process of sexual competition, sex partners will throw aside the inhibitions that have made good sexual communication impossible. And, by discovering new dimensions of sexual pleasure, the marriage might be vastly improved.
This is not always the case, but very often is. Therefore, the marital swap game of trade sex partners can prove a shot in the arm to a sagging marriage.
However, in many cases the very "thrill" of swapping is removed because the pleasure of doing something on the sly is gone. It is done out in the open.
In our particular case as recounted in our story, the sexual variety improved the marriage, but led to serious emotional problems of jealousy during the first few swap sessions. This has to be watched, for it is out of strange sexual entanglements, violent crimes can occur.
Nevertheless, if everyone who participates in such unique sexual arrangements involved in swapping recognizes the need to curb jealousy, this problem can be coped with.
The Publisher